To want is to can.

DAY 15: WILL AND PERSISTENCE

We have reached the end of this two week journey in which we have discovered alot of tools that were already insude us and today will not be the exception.

We have learnt to do some introspection, to take care and lovely talk to ourselves, to see everything through another perspectives. Before those weren't important things to many of us, or we believed that with a little effort once in a while we could stay in a "good person" status, but we discovered this is a lifetime work, because as well as everything change around us, also change inside us, the external is a reflection of the inside. We were scared and a bit confused, like in a sort of semi-darkness. UNTIL NOW.

We want and we can show our abilities and share our ideas: that will make us feel more confident and will take you to make our own decisions.

Make a list of your dreams, even those you think are fool or impossible to achieve. You will be surprised to find there are dreams you can come true tomorrow with a little will. Somewhere else, write the list of the fears and things you don't allow yourself even after those days of internal and external work. Look at them with love and don't judge you to still have some, look at all you have reached until now and how great it is to have more opportunities to keep knowing you! Today, having made the list of your fears and limitations list, write what you are going to do to transform them into something better, with concrete actions that you will commit to do as you feel able to. For example:

*I don't allow myself to fully discover and live my sexuality: I'm going to allow myself to live my sexuality as I feel it, i'm going to allow myself to be free and authentic.

*I don't allow myself to show, develop and share my talents: I'm going to live learning everyday and being vulnerable because it will allow me to find my own strenght, value and the people and resources that will strenghten my process.

*I don't allow myself to be personally and financially abundant: I'm going to live in real and unlimited prosperity and abundance for me and my family.

I don't allow to myself to be as spontaneous as a child and I don't allow myself to fully live as an adult: I'm going to live as a child and as an adult, I'm going to live bravely, exploring and discovering the universe so we can become one and heal together.

And so on. You know the things you weren't able to state in your real life are past wounds, so more you look into yourself for the origin of all that, you will find the way to solve everything, but right now all you need is to listen to your heart, he has all the answers.

I'm proud of you. Of your courage and willpower. Of your golden heart and of all we are building: this is not only about a better life, but a better world. Remember you are not your job or the money you have. You are not your family or what society said you were. You are not your fears, you are not your parents, you are not your past. You are your intentions and actions. You are what you decide to be from today. Remember: if you can dream about it is because you can reach it and because you deserve to. Namasté.

Equanimity

DAY 14: EQUANIMITY

Today we end the second week, and tomorrow will be our great ending, Can you see the differences there are in your life, the "before and after" since we started this process? I'd love you share your experiences with everyone, because more we share, more can learn all the people that is on the same way you are.

We have all the will to act with equanimity after having considered everything with a lot of patience, objectivity and care. This has been a hard work, but we know through experience we will have a reward, or maye more than one, and the first one will be find out you reached the goal you had with this work.

I know you want to enjoy your day, that's why the message will be short to give you all your time: the tools that join together with equanimity are understanding (day 2), wisdom (day 4), force and justice (day 5), compassion (day 8) and instinct (day 12). I remember the days here so you can review the day you feel you need to work again, the day can help you to learn how to balance the opinions we may have about something and to can speak objectively and, at the same time, with regard to all the involved parties.

Remember justice already lives in you and comes to help you just by looking inside and feel your instinct one you have clear understanding about the reality of the situation, same you have to analyze with your wisdom and look at with compassion so you can follow the right path with the necessary strenght.

Give it a try: you are always safe with yourself.

DAY 13: EVOLUTION

This has been a beautiful way, filled with hard work to crush the old beliefs we had, to start building ourselves with the pieces we lost and with some new ones  we feel that are fine for us, as legos: there are pieces that fit at first try, there are some other we try hard to make fit because we really like them and it is possible they find a place, and there are some other we tried and simply don't fit. It has not been easy or fast to solve, but being aware of our ability to change and of our real goal make us be sure that the way and the journey are going to be successful.

How much have we learnt within a week? How has your perception changed about yourself, people around you or even nature during those days? I dare say that even sometimes you feel healthier, that you have been able to find moments filled with true joy as many years ago you didn't have. And the best is that is a joy coming from verify your own evolution and progress: it is you who made you grow up, based on onbervation, care, attention, experiments and ideas. We are evolving thanks to our will, to our power, to our determination. And is this evolution with our responsibility, what make difficult issues to come to a good ending.

Again, it is possible you are in a situation in which you feel you have to make a choice, trivial or crucial, but a desition anyway. Trust yourself, your wisdom and all the other 12 tools we have. You are always safe with yourself.

Instinct

DAY 12: INSTINCT

Today we are going inside again. We have already assumed an attitude, but it's always possible to not be sure about if the attitude  or the desicion are the right ones. It is possible those are too passive or too agressive. There are not absolut truths, that's why which in on situation can be seen as agressive, in another could be the only possible approach, or which in some situations could be seen as passivity could simply be a more reflexive mood.

That's why the today's suggestion is short and conclusive: when you make a decision or take an attitude about something, ask yourself as if you were someone external: How am I feeling about this? What do I think about all this? If the mind is not clear, ask to your body. When you are happy and in peace your body is relaxed. If by asking yourself about how do you feel your body feels tense and something inside you (your strong and wise instinct protecting you) tells you something isn't going right, listen to you. Anyway, it was just with instinct that human race made it during so many millenials. Make your instinct a friend and start to listen to him, he is your inner voice, your guide. If everything is alright, carry on. If you feel awkward, think twice and make the necessary changes, as many times as needed and even when you have already started a process. It is always possible that everything gets better, and everything will flow if you allow yourself to better analyze your sensations concerning your desitions.

Lack of determination kills more dreams than failure itself.

The attitude we assume.
DAY 11: DETERMINATION

We are in charge of our own lives and that mean we are able to solve the situations that appear and the troubles that show up, knowing that is not wrong to ask for concrete and clear help for which is not in our hands.

Determination is not about to decide and to go until the end on the way we choose, no matter what. It's about to find the right path to be someone who people can trust on, people of great wisdom and strenght. It's about feeling you can trust on yourself, on your will and strenght, on your instinct and inner wisdom and on your ability to follow the right path and to rectify and recognize the mistakes you can make.

Determination is about being clear in your word as well as in your actions and thoughts. It's about knowing you are hugely powerful, but that it's alright to make a mistake and ask for help. Determination is about assuming fears as part of life experiences, it's about being responsible and also to take risks: lack of determination kills more dreams than failure itself.

I won't skimp on efforts to start again.

DAY 10: FOUNDATION

Today is the day we stop focusing on the past to start focusing on the immediate future, on the present continuous that starts today.

Although the past is part of us and is an enormous souce of wisdom from which we started to drink avidly, we already have the tools we need to start creating from now the future we want and dream: we have enlightenment, understanding, beauty, wisdom, force and justice, our present, compassion, magnificence and victory: all of them are our "today", our foundation. Future starts now.

The change you will have in this period will be clear, will be like facing a "start with a clean slate" because the new beginning will be unavoidable: you are already conscious about where you come from, where are you, and your heart knows what it wants, what makes you feel alive, what makes you happy. And that is what indicates where are you going, the future in which you will start to work right now. It's possible you are afraid and you start to give yourself some excuses, that you believe in the eternal human fragility, but don't let down yourself with excuses, don't sabotage yourself. The power you found inside you is your base; your foundation to start all this process is huge. And added up to the will and foundation of everyone around you, all will make you unbeatable. If you can dream it is because you can reach it, because you deserve to achieve it. Make yourself this promess today: I WON'T SKIMP ON EFFORTS TO START AGAIN.

I don't loose my mind in the pressence of impulses that conduce me to ways that are far from my goals.

DAY 9: MAGNIFICENCE

Today you figure out that control is the base of everything coming of in a possitive way.
I'm not talking about the control we know, that one of knowing everything, ruling on everything, that everything gets done just as we planned. It is about being in control of ourselves. Being in control of ourselves doesn't mean either to have a list of possible reactions face to any possible event and be ruled for it, it means to know and understand what are we feeling and why, where from are our sensations coming and to can assimilate and understand them, so then if it's necessary we can transform them into powerful tools: to sum up, to find the hidden benefits we already talked before.

It is simply about practicing daily, about knowing you are perfectly able to not loose your mind in the pressence of impulses that can conduce you to ways that are far from your goals: everything is about to focus on what you want to reach and to make every single day to make sense. All the abilities are already inside you and you already started to use them, and by doing so, you have started to shine in all your magnificence.